We can do, however the course that we lead does provide many if not
all the answers you may have. Check out the curriculum
here.
This link will take you to a list of people we know can help you if you
wish.
There could be a breakup in our Christian marriage. Can you
help us please?
Firstly we strongly believe that any Christian marriage can be saved
if both spouses want it to be saved.
So yes we can help your marriage be restored to what Jesus has designed
it to be. You may ask, “How can you say such a thing?” We believe the problems
you are having are common to what many others have faced and we know that
the Bible does provide the answers to those problems. However; we must say
that your marriage healing will only work if you want it to be healed.
You sure can!
Marriage was designed by God; therefore it can be great. It was not designed
to be a burden. It was designed to:
1. Make your life be less burdensome and more powerful.
2. Provide security for children.
3. Have lots of fun for years to come.
But how can we? The answers can be found in the Married
for Life study.
The study will provide you with tools to help you overcome any obstacle
that would prevent you from revitalising your marriage.
Once again we feel that the Married for Life study
will do this for you. It is designed to help all types of marriages, from
the ugly to the really sweet marriages.
People talk about having fun together, but how can we?
Perhaps if you have to ask this question, you may have “issues” that
need to seen to. But you definitely can have a fun time together with lots
of laughs and adventures.
Have a look at the testimonies and the
Romantic Testimonies and you will see some ways
people have fun together.
Proverbs 5:18-19 (Message) “Enjoy the wife you married as a young man!
Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose— don't ever quit taking delight in
her body. Never take her love for granted!”
I am a Christian and want to help or counsel others with
marriage problems. Are you able to help me with this?
This course is designed not only to help your marriage get better,
but to give you tools to help others. If you both are keen to help many
in your neighbourhood or church, then you could learn to lead groups. Contact
one of these people near you and they will be
able to help you.
No we do not.
We do not believe that Christians should divorce because God designed
marriage to last, and makes this possible.
Refer to these scriptures:
Matthew 19:6 “So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined
together, let man not separate."
Numbers 30:2 “When a man makes a vow to the LORD or takes an oath to obligate himself
by a pledge, he must not break his word but must do everything he said.”
This includes wedding vows!
Ecclesiastes 5:4-5 When you make a vow to God, do not delay in fulfilling it. He has no
pleasure in fools; fulfill your vow. It is better not to vow than
to make a vow and not fulfill it.
Malachi 2:16 "I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel, "and I hate a
man's covering himself with violence as well as with his garment," says
the LORD Almighty. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith.
Mark 10:2-12 2 Some Pharisees came and tested him by asking, "Is it lawful for a
man to divorce his wife?"
3 "What did Moses command you?" he replied.
4 They said, "Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce
and send her away."
5 "It was because your hearts were hard that Moses wrote you this law,"
Jesus replied.
6 "But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.
7 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united
to his wife,
8 and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one.
9 Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."
10 When they were in the house again, the disciples asked Jesus about
this.
11 He answered, "Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman
commits adultery against her.
12 And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits
adultery."
In this passage the Pharisees tried to trick Jesus with what was then,
and still is today, a contentious issue. Yes Moses wrote the law of divorce,
but Jesus said that was for those with a hard heart. We Christians believe
we have a soft heart (heart of Flesh) so therefore Jesus says
that those rules do not apply to us. He has given us tools to fix the problem
not to run away from it! [And I will give them one heart, and I will put a new spirit within
you; and I will take the stony heart out of their flesh, and will
give them an heart of flesh: (Eze 11:19) A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within
you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and
I will give you an heart of flesh. (Eze 36:260]
Remember; "But Jesus looked on them and said to them, With
men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible." (Mat
19:26)
